Why are we attracted to stories in which bad things happen—and
even stories with unhappy endings? The first reason that comes to mind is one likely
shared by most readers: no one I know likes to read about characters in a
better state than themselves (hooray for schadenfreude). We look for difficult
emotions and events in stories so we can relate to them, and often we enjoy
reading about people in worse
situations to feel better about our own, or just to experience something new; I
loved reading those perilous survival stories I knew I was so far removed from
in grade school. I also remember hunting down Bridge to Terabithia in the third grade simply so I could read the
chapter where Jessie learns of Leslie’s death—it was just so different than all the other children’s
stories. Fairy tales (or the superficially analyzed Disney version) that close
with pink bows atop pink carriages are too optimistic; in reality, not all villains
get punished, and virtually no poor girls land princes—no matter how beautiful
they may be.
Rarely
do we think twice about good things that have happened to us, and it seems as
if the bulk of everyday conversation is comprised of complaints (at least, in
college?). I get annoyed of listening to friends or family spiel the same list
of grievances on end, and I’m guilty of the same, but somehow I never tire of
reading about characters who experience bad things in a well-written novel; I
even sympathize more, and not
necessarily because their fictional situation might be more dire. And had these
real-life friends presented their complaints in story form, perhaps I would
have liked it better too—listening or reading to something carefully thought
out touches me at a greater intensity; there is more material, space, and more
heart with which to connect. Why do we like movies and stories that make us
cry? I’m not entirely certain, but there is something special to be said about
both the story and the reader/listener when tears are shed.
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